Thursday, February 14, 2013

Valentines

Not much is known about Valentine's day. All that is known is that Pope Gelasiums marked February 14th as a day to honor St. Valentine's martyrdom  Eventually, St. Valentines became the patron saint of lovers and February 14th became the day of exchanging love. St. Valentines was a Roman holy priest who was martyred for refusing to give up Christianity. He was Martyred in 269 AD and he is the Patron Saint of affianced couples, bee keepers, engaged couples, epilepsy, fainting, greetings, happy marriages, love, lovers, plague, travelers  and young people. There are several other theories about the origin of Valentines but no one knows for sure. Basically in a nutshell, we celebrate Valentines to honor St. Valentines death which some of people don't even know about.

Now, as for relationship advice, it's best to not get into a relationship if you're not ready. It's not okay to mess around with other people's feelings like that, this can end pretty bad. Also, DON'T get into relationships just to feel better about yourself and use that excuse of being happy all of the time, you should be happy with YOURSELF to begin with in order to have a healthy relationship. Don't think that getting into a relationship is like a medicine that will cure any disease known to man. To tell you the truth, the number one goal of being IN a relationship is to be happy, that's it. If you enter in a relationship unhappy and all depressed, then there will be problems. Carrying on, beware of infatuations and lusts. Being attracted to someone just because of their body, which is lust, is ridiculously stupid to me. I've heard of a saying that says,"Looks always fade, however, those with inner beauty always become more beautiful." This means that physical attraction will always fade away but the beauty of someone inside, which is their personality, will always become more beautiful. Relationships that started mainly because of physical appearances usually don't last too long, so always go for someone's PERSONALITY, NOT LOOKS. JUST BE YOURSELF, DON'T TRY TO BE LIKE OTHERS. In the end, it's what's in the inside that counts but honestly, today's generations of teens could care less about this and their going to do whatever the hell they want to do nowadays. It's best to stay single as a teen to avoid drama and problems.

No comments:

Post a Comment